Tired of being stuck in ground-hog day?

health & happiness Jun 09, 2023

 

We often don’t fully grasp what the ROI will be when we actually step up to the next level of leadership in our life do we?  

 

Here is some of the ROI you’ll enjoy when you step into Dietless Living® Personal Health Leadership™ Weight Loss & Well-Being Programs: 

 

  1. Natural and permanent weight loss: By following Dietless Living® 3 Systems of Health Consciousness™ model you will discover how to lose weight in a natural and sustainable way. This means you won’t have to rely on others telling you what you can and can’t eat or how you should or shouldn’t be exercising because you’ll be the one making all the decisions for you. Having autonomy over your own choices is what leads to sustainable weight loss.   

  2. Simplicity and inclusivity: The programs are designed to be simple and easy to apply to your life. Inclusive means they incorporate all areas of your life and allow for all the people in your life who don’t want to make the same changes. Which means it fits with different li...
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Mid Year Motivator | What have you got planned?


Well, here we are on the cusp of June and drawing closer to the years mid-point.  

 

Have you achieved what you wanted to achieve so far?  

 

I certainly haven’t. But I’ve been looking at my big picture plan and thinking about what I have and haven’t achieved yet and why that is so that I can either replicate what went well or make a new plan for what didn’t.  

 

If you’re looking ahead to the next 7 months, here are some of the strategies I’m using to make my plan; maybe they will help you too.  

 

Step 1 

     ✔ Know where you are heading to. If you don’t have a destination in mind, any road will get you there. (I think the Cheshire Cat said that?) 

 

Step 2 

    ✔ What can you do right now

    ✔ What can’t you do right now? 

    ✔ What resources, skills, and talent do you have available to you? 

 

Step 3 

    ✔ Draw a mud map 

    ✔ Keep it simple 

    ✔ Think big picture in the first instance  

    ✔ Break that down into two, then quarters, then eights – littl...

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Give me 3 months and I’ll give you freedom.

health & happiness May 12, 2023

 

I’m always on about how small adjustments are easier to implement than 20 pound of change and that small adjustments repeated every day will lead to great change in our weight over time. 

 

But frankly, most people don’t actually believe me, they don’t believe it’s true. Sure, in theory it sounds good, but really, in practice, it seems unlikely.  

 

But let’s look at it from the other side of the coin. How do we gain, 5, 10, 15, 20….or more kg?  

 

We make small adjustments, repeat them daily, and they lead to great change we don’t want. 

 

What kind of adjustments I hear you ask? These kinds: 

 

  • We let our belt out 1 notch at time when our waistband feels tight 

 

  • We start wearing roomer clothes when they get to tight to do up or start restricting us 

 

  • We stop getting on the scales when we don’t like the message they deliver 

 

  • When we look at ourselves in the mirror, we turn our bodies to the most flattering angle or simply avoid looking in them alto...
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Why changing your diet and moving your body won’t lead to permanent weight loss?

 

What would it mean to you to lose weight and improve your health this year? 

 

What’s your plan so far, have you started, are you on your way yet?  

 

What help do you need? Can I help you? I’m right here, I can help.  

 

Too often we go to people to help us with something that we’ve been struggling with only to find that they have no idea, no experience, and no concept of the struggle that we are experiencing, so they can’t really help us. 

 

I remember very clearly talking to a psychologist about 15 years ago, about my weight issues and not being able to control my own eating behaviours. Whilst she was a lovely person and a great therapist, she was a very slender woman who had never had any issues with food or her weight.  

 

I went to her though because she advertised that she ran groups for women who had weight problems. But even though she worked with women like me, I never got the sense that she could relate to me. She certainly seemed to understand the theory of eat...

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The biggest lie about losing weight is you only have to change what you eat.


We all want:
Choices | Freedom | Control 

 

It’s all we strive for in life isn’t it?  

 

But when I was struggling with my weight for those long 25 years, choices, freedom and control were not my experience. I felt very much out of control.   

 

I think that’s the appeal of going on a “diet”, a feeling we’re taking control.  

 

But restricting food isn’t control, it’s controlling 

 

And there’s a big difference between them.  

 

On a diet there’s no connection with ourselves or the driving forces within our mind and body and that’s ultimately why we lose control and end up habit relapsing.  

 

Our lives are full of situations were control is handled by others, but our weight and health, the way we eat and exercise, that should be something that we enjoy with ourselves. 

 

Dietless Living® Personal Health Leadership™ Weight Loss Programs will guide you to:  

  • Choices in food, movement and lifestyle
     
  • Freedom in mind and body
     
  • Control of your weight, health, happines...
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What’s so special about chocolate anyway?

 
Happy Easter!  

What are you doing this weekend, do you get the whole 4 days off?  

Whatever you’re doing, simply enjoy yourself and forget about the Easter eggs, its’ just chocolate after all. And chocolate is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, all year every year and fills shelves in almost every shop we walk into. There is literally nothing special about it 

Break-free from the marketing matrix and become a #freedomseeker instead. 

Focus on outside time, having fun, finding connection and laughter 

Whatever’s happening in your world at the moment isn’t going to be improved by chocolate. But getting outside and experiencing the real sensations and pleasures of life will: 

  • Improve your perception 
  • Uplift your mood 
  • Provide new perspectives 

 
And if all the cells in your body were solar panels, stepping outside is what makes them all turn and look up and that is where real joy is experienced. 

Life is a wonderful continuation, the sun will always circle the earth, the ...

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What’s the one thing that can propel us out of procrastination?

health & happiness Mar 31, 2023

 
Do you procrastinate? 
 

Procrastinate means: to delay or postpone action, to put off doing something.  

A simple Google search will provide many reasons why we procrastinate.  

But from my experience, when it comes to starting a weight loss program, any program, even ones we create ourselves, we back away and procrastinate simply because of a wee little fear 

What that fear is, is different for each and every one of us but mostly they revolve around these: 

  • We don’t know what the options are 

  • We’re confused by the options we’re presented with 

  • We’ve tried all the options we’re presented with and they didn’t work for us 

  • We’re just shit scared that we’ll get our hopes up and be disappointed - again 


I know firsthand what it’s like to really really
really want to get going, and really really really need to get going and yet, still sit there like a deer in the headlights, and do absolutely nothing except put more food in my mouth.  

Whilst so much time can pass while we’re in...

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How do you stop the quitters spiral?

health & happiness Mar 24, 2023

We’ve all done it.  

We’ve all fallen off the wagon. 

There’s literally no shame in that. 

Yet, sometimes, it can take us into deep shame that leads us into the quitters spiral.  

When we fall off the wagon in such a drastic way that it leads to total abandonment of our goals, it’s not because we ate something we shouldn’t have, it starts with something far more meaningful to us and that’s what leads to the food and ultimately our quitters spiral.  

The quitters spiral happens when we break one of our own cardinal rules which discredit one of our deepest held beliefs about ourselves. 

Perhaps you have a core belief that:  

  • You must do everything perfectly all the time and you must never slipup or look foolish
     
  • That to avoid humiliation, you must be the most knowledgeable person on a particular subject, and you must constantly be reading and studying to prove your value
     
  • You have to get everything right and that to receive any form of negative feedback means you are a failure
     
  • Have to b...
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The biggest lie in weight loss is that losing weight = being healthy.

health & happiness Mar 17, 2023

Today I’m asking you what is it that you’re after? Are you after weight loss or a healthy body or both?  

I ask because everyone I’ve ever spoken to who wants to lose weight, ultimately wants to lose it so they can feel better  

They want to lose their excess weight so they can: 

  • Sleep better 
  • Move more freely 
  • Cope with the climate better 
  • Feel more comfortable in their clothes during the day so they feel more relaxed 
  • They want their body to look nicer naked so they feel more confident to have sex or put on their swimmers and go the beach  

They also want to lose their excess weight so they can sit in seats at the movies or on aeroplanes, so they get out more and see new things that enrich their life. They want to join in with life, relax, and think about other things, things that give them joy and happiness. 

The problem I see, and experienced myself many times over while I was stuck in dieting hell™ for those 25 years, is that the weight loss solutions marketed to us on a ...

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Do you want to lose weight this year?

health & happiness Mar 10, 2023


Do you want to lose weight this year?
  

If your answer is no, you don’t want to lose weight this year, then you’ll understand who I help, because I help people who are the exact opposite to you, they do want to lose weight this year and they’re looking now to get started.   

If your answer is yes, you do want to lose weight this year, then you’ll know who I help, I help people who are exactly like you, they do want to lose weight this year and they’re looking right to get started.  

As a weight loss coach, I help women who do want to lose weight this year. Women who:  

  • Have been struggling with their weight for more than 5 years 
  • Have been focused on families and career and simply lost sight of their own needs and health but want to lose weight now.  
  • Know that getting the weight off will increase their happiness simply because they’ll feel better in themselves and they won’t have to think about it any more 
     

I help them get started with the Dietless Living® Getting Started Packag...

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